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personality
You may be rather emotional; that is, one will generally know how you are feeling, whether good or bad, because you let others know your moods easily.
You have a strong feeling of optimism, considered favorably by most people around you. Your perception is that the bottle is half-full rather than half-empty.
You have to be with people. This extends into the need to gain popularity, achieve social recognition and influence those people around you. The "bottom-line" is a strong people orientation.
You have a strong sense of humor. You usually know when to lighten a difficult situation, amuse and entertain people.
You have a high trust level for others. Occasionally you may have trusted too much and was "stung" in the process. Your natural optimism, however, tends to pull you out of such slumps.
You have a natural, outgoing style that some have labeled as the "natural salesperson." You are generally likable, talkative and socially assertive. Your primary intent is convincing or persuading people.
Poised, confident, persuasive and impressive are descriptors for you. You are usually capable of speaking in a comfortable manner.
You are a natural communicator. You love to talk, offer jokes and make sure that everyone is having a good time. This trait is especially evident at functions and outings.
One of your great strengths is your ability to communicate and talk readily. Since all strengths may be overused at times, you may sometimes talk too much.
You show sympathy to the feelings and needs of others. Your natural empathy style may draw others to you.
You can generate enthusiasm in yourself and in other people. Your enthusiasm, often contagious, involves many people in a social activity who might not ordinarily become involved.
Below is a list of communication styles that will mesh well with your own. Having a partner who understands and practices these traits is important to your long-term happiness.
Offer immediate rewards for accomplishments.
Share specific ideas to carry out an action.
Ask for opinions and ideas.
Look for details that might get ignored.
Provide solid, yes or no answers--don't say maybe.
Understand a defiant nature, and know it is not malicious.
Plan interactions which support dreams and goals.
Be prepared to listen to many stories.
Flatter ego.
Expect some resistance if you don't get your way.
You meet new people easily and are good at making them feel welcome.
You are skilled at finding "win-win" solutions when conflicts arise.
You are passionate about your ideals.
You are good at motivating others toward positive goals.
You are socially poised and people-oriented.
You are a big thinker with big plans and a big image that usually carries through.
You don't get bogged down when the going gets tough in a relationship.
You tend to be self-reliant and not enjoy relying solely on others.
You are optimistic and tend to make others feel good about themselves.
You have an excellent sense of humor and tend to see humor in events spontaneously.
You are very good at communicating with others and seeing their point of view.
You tend to be influential in decision-making situations. Others often turn to you for advice.
You may want:
Activities involving contact with many people.
Partners who practice listening and participation.
A friendly, favorable social environment.
Social recognition of your accomplishments.
Acceptance in a variety of groups.
Popularity.
A support system to help you get things done.
An audience to perform to and entertain.
Support of your ideas and dreams.
Freedom from many rules and regulations and the ability to write your own rules.